Writing the Story Of Your ONLY Life
This is a photo I've treasured ever since I took it during our Central Michigan adventure with Rudden's family. It was a moment of tenderness caressed by just the right morning light, and I never want to forget it. I would not be the mother I am today without Amy.
I think it's the perfect shot to accompany this post because I am so stoked to have my photos included in this beautiful video essay about motherhood by the talented Katherine Center.
In case you're at work and can't turn up the sound, here's the text of her essay:
WHAT I WOULD TELL HER: (If I knew what to say.)
You are a miracle.
And I have to love you this fiercely: So that you can feel it even after you leave for school, or even while you are asleep, or even after your childhood becomes a memory.
You’ll forget all this when you grow up. But it’s okay.
Being a mother means having your heart broken.
And it means loving and losing and falling apart and coming back together.
And it’s the best there is. And also, sometimes, the worst.
Sometimes you won’t have anyone to talk to.
Sometimes you’ll wonder if you’ve forgotten who you are.
But you must remember this: What you’re doing matters.
And you have to be brave with your life so that others can be brave with theirs.
The truth is, being a woman is a gift. Tenderness is a gift. Intimacy is a gift. And nurturing the good in this world is a nothing short of a privilege.
That’s why I have to love you this way. So I can give what I have to you. So that you can carry it in your body and pass it on.
I have watched you sleep. I’ve kissed you a million times. And I know something that you don’t, yet:
You are writing the story of your only life every single minute of every day.
And my greatest hope for you, sweet child, is that I can teach you how to write a good one.
- Katherine Center









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Congrats on this well deserved honor, Sarah! Your shots of your daughter are always fantastic. The video created by Katherine is beautiful, as are the accompanying words. Thanks for sharing it!
it was so fun to watch the video and recognize all your photos!
What a wonderful video and post! Thanks for sharing.